Suffering Is There But Just Around You; It Is Not In The Center, It Is On The Periphery. It Is Impossible For Suffering To Be In The Center; It Is Not In The Nature Of Things. It Is Always On The Periphery And You Are The Center.


We have this incredible ability to transform our lives! Every bit of suffering, every emotional torment can be turned around. Why…well, it’s because we all possess this extraordinary potential to shift anything that doesn’t align with this perfect created Life!

In times of deep sadness and the intense ache of losing a child, there is a way to heal and grow beyond our pain. This journey of change helps us unravel the hurt within us, guiding us to a place where peace can live alongside memories that once caused us great sorrow.

As a grieving parent, it may seem impossible to envision such a significant shift. The thought of moving past despair and becoming stronger and wiser might feel like a far-off dream in the midst of overwhelming agony. But true change isn’t about logic or reason – it’s about feeling it deep within your soul, committing to it with unwavering bravery.

Beginning this transformative journey means confronting every part of your pain with determination to emerge more resilient and complete. It entails diving into your deepest sorrows, peeling away layers of suffering to discover strength waiting inside you. By transforming your trauma into an opportunity for growth, you can move towards profound healing. Facing your wounds honestly opens the door for release and freedom from suffering’s grip on you.

This journey requires all of you – tears, fears, shattered dreams woven together with resilience and grace. Moving forward among loss holds the promise of renewal as we hold onto hope and courage along this challenging yet transformative path. By embracing this change brought by loss, we find comfort, tranquility, healing, and wholeness.

Why Trauma Transformation Methodology Is Different:

When it comes to healing from deep emotional wounds, there are two main approaches: the traditional way and a different method called trauma transformation. The usual methods focus on changing our thoughts and mindset using logic, while trauma transformation goes deeper into our energy and how it affects our perception of reality.

Instead of just working on mental aspects, trauma transformation aims to clear out the negative energy left by past traumas. By releasing this stagnant energy, we not only change how we see things but also grow spiritually and emotionally stronger.

This process helps us move beyond suffering and discover our true selves without any limitations. To achieve this higher level of awareness, we need to let go of the heavy energies tied to our past traumas. As these burdens fade away, we start seeing new possibilities and insights in life.

While this won’t bring your child back, envision if accepting the loss and healing through heightened understanding could make them look down upon us with pride – wouldn’t that be simply wonderful?


Ellery’s approach, which took me directly to the root of my issues without extensive questioning, was a breath of fresh air compared to previous methods I’ve encountered. This was a revolutionary shift for me. My deepest appreciation for these invaluable teachings that will continue to impact me. 

Nury Buendia

Director Foundation

In the brief time span during which we collaborated, Ellery introduced an entirely unique and highly efficient strategy that provided me with the much-needed clarity I needed in my life. My gratitude extends to you, my friend.



Wow, it’s amazing how we bumped into each other unexpectedly, yet you chose to collaborate with me even though it wasn’t on the agenda. The surprise training you offered propelled my growth in a significant way. I can’t express enough how grateful I am for this, thank you for being such a wonderful person!

Wendy Sullivan

Product Designer

Ellery, I am forever indebted to you for your invaluable guidance. The way you’ve helped me unlock the beauty within my heart is something I’ll treasure forever. Your deeds and the graciousness with which you performed them have left a profound impact on me, one that will always be recalled with deep appreciation.

Maia Berbich

Spiritual Seeker